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It’s About Process
January 29, 2016, 12:49 PM
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It has to start somewhere

Purpose Driven Life, Day 28. It Takes Time. How many times do we have to hear that? This world has gotten to a place where we actually believe what Burger King’s slogan say “ have it your way“. There little truth to that slogan.

In my book “Season of Intentional Relationships” I wrote about how people tend to think that change comes automatically, but we need to reflect and understand we can’t plant a seed one day and expect to see a flower bloomed the next. Yes, we want our spouse, child or friend to be a better person especially if you have shared some guidance to them. But we also have to consider that they have to process. Revelation must be believed before them in their own process. Some people learn best through hardship. I’m not that person.

Yes, we want our spouse, child or friend to be a better person the next time you see them, especially if you have shared some guidance with them. However, we also have to consider that they have to process what has been revealed to them. Revelation must be believed before the process begins if at all. Some people learn best through hardship. I’m not that person.

We have to get sick and tired of certain things that we do have the power to change, which it start with how we think. Which reminds me of another phrase I hear often from people who know I am a Christian, they would say “I thought you were a Christian”. Somewhere people don’t recognize that maturity requires a process. To gain wisdom in includes a process.

We can’t generalize everything and believe that all men or women are the same. Same with all blacks or whites are the same because we are not. We all have our own experiences which affects our insight on life and if you don’t know the entire story by having a relationship with those people you will not understand why people do what they do and it has nothing to do with the color of their skin. They have to come to whatever realization to make specific choices. You can’t make for them. Although, education is key. It’s not the end all to all.

The sooner we understand that a thought is a seed planted and that it matures with actions. We can’t just lay in bed and have good thoughts. We must get out of the bed and do something and whatever you do will determine your future.

We have to embrace the changes, the lesson, the sharing and the teaching; which all equates to process. Although, they say change requires growth, yet surely growth requires change. I’ve seen people change their environment but they haven’t changed their behavior, but if they change their behavior surely their surroundings will evidently change.

We have to be thankful that we can become the best of all our best advice, so be coachable in the process.  There will be an opportunity for you to be a teacher of life, but enjoy the journey of being a student. You can’t teach until you are a student first. Listen to those who have taken the road you are desiring to take. Life was created to be shared. It’s not good to be alone.

If your personal I.D. had to describe  you what would it say. Color, Size or your address don’t mean MUCH.

#BN10tional!

Make a Vision Board if you haven’t already.


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