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Well, why did I…
September 12, 2012, 3:50 PM
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Well, why did I start this post and then have the nerves to invite you to come here and read something that I wrote because I thought it was something you would want to read to hopefully guide, lead and direct you to become a better person?

Thank you for asking.  I am single.  I believe I am very confident to say I am beautiful, not just on the outside, but inside too, if a person takes the time to really get to know me.

My LOVE lanuage is quality time, so that means I like to spend quality time with people I care about.  I am big on creating memories as well as making people have memories about times we share together.  To identify your love language get the book the FIVE Love Lanuages.

Now, I don’t get a chance to spend alot of time with all the people I would like to, but I make the most out of my time by being as genuine and honest as possible because “you know” there are some people in life who won’t tell you the truth.  I know the truth hurts, but with hurt there is healing and how can you heal if you don’t know what’s bothering you.

Okay I hear you, you are probably saying to yourself, Kim you always look like nothing bothers you.  Well, just don’t ask me “how am I doing” because I will surely tell you and this is my point.  Don’t say you are blessed when you don’t feel like it, be honest with yourself and others so you can get the best feedback, counsel, direction in order to become the best person you were created to be and move on to the next best thing.  Using your time wisely.

I dont’ like being single.  When God said it wasn’t good for man to be alone he’s talking about women too.  You know I did some research and found out that there are 92 million singles who have never.  I mean NEVER been married before, but then when you look at the numbers for how many people have been divorced, it seems it’s must be a scary thing out there.  What get’s me is that alot of people get married in the church, but go get a divorce in a court room.  Why not consider counseling.  OOOOOO, you don’t want no one in your business.  Well we all can go for some TRUTH to help us move on.  We just have to be open.

There is no use in wasting our time and others with stuff that don’t concern you.  We all want to be with someone at the end of the day, not literally.  Yet in life we the person who loves us just where we are and I am hear to guide you along the way.  There are some things I have learned not to do and that is to act like a wife, when I am not one.  Meaning, I am not living with no one like he’s my husband.  Why wouldn’t he want to marry me and secure our future.

I do have days where I wish I had a man at home to hug me and tell me it’s going to be okay.  And I don’t ~ so in the meantime, when my dad calls that will have to do or when I get to pick up the phone and chop it up with my friends and when I say friends I mean it.


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